In recent years, people attach too much importance to money. Everyone wants to get rich. Here only hard work does not always produce a result, and there are many ways to approach the wealth without much effort. So, at least, I think most young girls. Only need to marry a rich and successful man.
Unfortunately, many women do not even suspect that to be the wife of a businessman is not easy. It's not only the boutiques and beauty salons, luxury resorts and vacation on your own yacht, is everyday work.
The wife of a successful man must correspond to him in all things. Appearance, level of intelligence, the ability to maintain small talk, to restore the atmosphere of the house and cook a delicious dinner. Yes, imagine, the wives of businessmen are also sometimes prepared.
If you happen to snag a successful man, don't think you can relax. You must be the perfect woman that he didn't want to change you to another.
Below are 10 tips on how to become the perfect wife of a businessman.
10. To prepare for that work for it will always be in the first place
Girls tend to idealize life with a rich man. It seems that the main thing is money, everything else doesn't matter.
However, if you marry a businessman, prepare for the fact that you will always have a rival is his work. With her, he will pay much longer than you.
If you are willing to sit in a "Golden cage", then go for it. If you truly love your man, then accept this as a given. Do not cut, do not provoke quarrels. Your man is a busy man, he works for the good of your family. You just have to accept, and even better is also to do business, not to be bored alone.
9. To endure
Most businesses have a tough character. They used to lead at work and at home behave in the same way.
Such a man will not be interested in the views of his wife or children, he will make decisions on any issues. Not every woman is able to endure.
If you are an independent person and will never be subordinate to men, peace in the family you can not see.
Besides, there are such situations when the girl first, ready to endure everything. She enjoys material well-being, turning a blind eye to the shortcomings of her husband. Then she realizes that this life is not what she dreamed of.
If your man accustomed to command both at home and at work, don't argue with him. It does not alter. If you want to keep the family together, take it for what it is.
8. To understand that wealth is not constant
The wife of a successful and rich man must realize that nothing lasts forever. There are many stories where billionaires remained without a penny in his pocket. Today, wealth, luxury, flattery of others, and tomorrow poverty, debts and crooked smiles of friends and even strangers.
If you married for love, you are unlikely to scare the bankruptcy of the husband. You will not mourn and mourn for the home, car, Bank account, and help your beloved through this difficult period.
7. To develop
Only in Russian melodramas can be seen that the businessman married to a beautiful stupid doll. In fact, even if that happens, she will have to work hard.
The businessman's wife must be (or appear to be) a smart woman. To learn how to maintain a conversation on any subject with totally different people.
Please note that the wives of many famous people very smart.
If you want your husband to appreciate you, develop. Get an education, go on courses, read books, go through online training. Become an interesting person.
If you are only interested in trends and brands, most likely quickly get bored.
6. Take care of appearance
Of course, if you financial situation allows you to invest in your beauty, look bad is just silly. Never forget about appearance, worry about their appearance.
Although it's not as easy as it seems. Beauty is not only a gym and beauty salons. You need to learn how to dress, pick your style. This applies especially to social events where you go with your husband.
Throw in her wardrobe tasteless outfits. If you are afraid to make a mistake, choose the classics. It never gets old. Although, if funds allow, you can invite a stylist who will sort your wardrobe and help you buy some other items.
5. Keep it
The author of the book "My husband – the businessman" Ian Agarunov sharing your story. When she married businessman, and began intensively to deal with the house, the husband cooled her ardor.
He said he can afford to pay for a maid service, a cook and even a prostitute. To her question, what he offers from his wife, the man answered.
Indeed, many people think that strong men do not need approval, but no. You need to give them a reliable back, to support them in all endeavors, encourage in case of failure.
4. Learn how to plan a budget
Even if your husband has money to burn, don't think you can spend it right and left. Your man would never get rich, if so thoughtlessly dispose of their condition.
Learn how to plan a budget, your husband will be very grateful. Besides, you can always answer the question, where to spend a large sum of money.
Think about the "black bottom". If you don't have a certain amount in case of problems with the business immediately to create it. Always think in advance.
3. Be interested in her husband's business
If possible, try to have information about the business your husband. Many wives of rich and successful people don't even know what their men.
Ask questions, be interested in. It's his life's work, your husband will be very pleased that you are not indifferent to his business. Just do it discreetly.
If a man is not going to bring you up to speed, give it up. Maybe he wants to protect you from problems, or maybe perceived as a temporary phenomenon in his life.
If the husband tells you about your case, listen to it, but don't criticize and don't try to give advice if you don't ask.
2. Give him pleasure
Yes, indeed, a successful entrepreneur can afford a maid and excellent cook, but don't forget to please your man. Invest in your home's heart and soul.
It is not necessary to take the position of a guest and to live in the hotel. Be the hostess. You can do flowers or find another hobby that will beautify your home. Sometimes indulge her husband's delicious dishes.
An important component of marriage is sex. Try to be attractive, and keep the passion in a relationship. Be not only a business partner, the mother of his children, but a woman.
1. Love your husband
It doesn't matter who your husband is a businessman or not, he needs love. Everyone wants to be loved, regardless of income level.
Only a loving woman can inspire her man to feats, to support at a difficult time and to provide him with a reliable base.
Keep your love, cherish her that she is not gone. Do so that the husband felt your love. Tell him the kind words, take care of him, do not provoke quarrels, not to reproach him, do not compare with other men.
Create an atmosphere of love and warmth to make your husband happy came back home and knew that he was there waiting, even if he lost all his fortune.